Are you one of those who stop believing in real love? Do you think you don’t deserve to be loved? Remove these negative thoughts and beliefs from your life and follow these tiny tips to finally find your love in 2016. Faith works wonders. It moves mountains and helps people achieve their goals. When you allow love to have a special place in your heart, finding your soul mate becomes easier than ever.
1. Make love your priority
Last year I was sad and lonely. I believed I didn’t need anyone in my life. I believed I would be better off alone. The word ‘love’ was removed from my vocabulary and I avoided the couples at all costs. Instead of being open and kind to men, I literally hated them. I was rude and selfish. My grandma once told me that I would never find my true love if I didn’t make it a priority.
If your priority is your job, or friends, or hobby, chances are you won’t find your soul mate this year. Open your heart. Let yourself be happy. Let others love you. Start looking for opportunities to meet new guys. Tell yourself that you’re not worse than others. You can love and be loved.
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2. Acknowledge what a true relationship is
Relationships aren’t about flowers, sweets, restaurants, dates, kisses and sex only. Building a long-term relationship requires some time, effort and commitment. Genuine love is a mess of all kinds of emotions. Both partners learn how to cope with those emotions together. If one of you isn’t involved, your relationship has no future. Prepare yourself for this commitment and tell yourself that you are really ready (physically and mentally) to start a new relationship.
3. Discover the world
Spending most of the time at home watching your favorite shows and dreaming about big, real love will land you nowhere. Leave your comfort zone today to find your soul mate tomorrow. Travel, visit museums, go to the cinema by yourself, volunteer or try out new hobbies. Spend more time among people, not gadgets. The world is full of wonderful people. Don’t hide from them. Start a conversation with strangers, make new friends and let others know that you are single.
4. Fall in love with yourself
We used to believe selfish people love themselves. In reality, every one of us should master the art of self-love. Jennifer Lopez’s words hit home: “You’ve got to love yourself first. You’ve got to be okay on your own before you can be okay with somebody else.” Women who don’t love themselves usually end up staying in unhealthy relationships. Your potential partner should see and know that you won’t allow him to treat you badly.
5. Get over your fear of rejection
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. The fear of rejection may prevent you from finding your love. Getting rejected by a man isn’t the end of your life. Keep trying to start a new relationship and one day you will definitely succeed. If you haven’t been in relationships for many years, begin with dating apps. There are many online dating apps out there that are free and easy to use.
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6. Don’t hope for the first date
When going out on your first date, don’t make big plans like getting married and having kids. He might not be the one you’re looking for. Don’t give up and keep trying until you realize he is your soul mate. When I went out on my very first date, I hoped it would be successful and I would finally be happy. However, that date was a huge disappointment and disaster. I was so sad that spent another month feeling depressed and lost.
Modern people set wrong life goals. They strive to reach success, get a promotion, make more money or travel around the globe, forgetting about love. Include this feeling in your life and make it a priority this year if you’re sick and tired of being single. You deserve to be happy. 2016 is going to be a year of love, which means you have all chances to finally find your soul mate. The tips mentioned above may point you in the right direction.