Women often find it difficult to remain feminine, especially if they assume leadership positions. Some of them have already understood that they’re strong enough to surmount life barriers and achieve desirable goals. Unfortunately, such women usually sacrifice the most valuable things they have in order to be powerful and successful. They know that they have no right to relax and show weakness, because one mistake can cost them everything.
I’m not a careerist by nature and I don’t agree with the fact that every woman should have a will of steel like Margaret Thatcher had. I think that there’s no place for emotionality, tenderness, sensitiveness, kindness and gentleness in the hearts of iron ladies. Feminine qualities are an essential part of women’s nature.
Femininity is both the key and the weapon that can help every lady enchant the man of her dream. Men enchanted by delicate and feminine women are often ready to move the mountains for the sake of their love and happiness.
Women who can create beauty and comfortable home atmosphere, will always be surrounded by highly successful and manly men. Although feminine traits should be instilled in girls from their earliest childhood, if you’re already a grown-up, you still have a chance to reeducate yourself and develop these feminine characteristics in a quite short period of time.
1. Give preference to women’s style
I’ve noticed that modern women love to wear men’s clothes. They usually do it for various purposes. Someone find a masculine fashion comfortable, while others feel 100 times more confident when wearing men’s clothes or have to stick to certain dress codes. Women who prefer to wear jeans, shirts, T-shirts, and sneakers look fashionable, beautiful and stylish, but not feminine.
Over the years these women have got used to men’s style and gradually lose the sense of femininity. They start wearing their hair short and forget about jewelry or other things that make them feminine and help them look bright against the cold surroundings. It’s okay to try something new and experiment with fashion, but it’s crucially important not to cross the line, because unusual styles can have a big influence on both men’s and women’s minds.
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2. Develop a feminine voice
No matter how you slice it, the voice of a woman is an incredibly important thing that can either enhance her feminine allure or alienate people. Modern men set high standards of excellence for themselves and others, especially when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex. They find women with high-pitched female voices more attractive.
If for one or other reason you don’t have the voice of an angel, you shouldn’t fall into despondency about it. First of all, record your voice for you to hear it as other people hear and analyze what kind of voice you have. If you have a lower-pitched, creaky and rude voice, consider using different feminine voice techniques to develop a female voice.
But the pitch of the voice isn’t the only thing you should focus on. Develop a feminine enunciation, expand your vocabulary and improve your grammar. As soon as you reach all these goals, you’ll be able to win the hearts of men with the help of one or two phrases.
3. Pay attention to your thoughts and feelings
It’s hard to change something in life, if there’s a complete disharmony in your inner world. Many ladies cannot reach a new level of femininity, because they’re the victims of deep-seated feelings and emotions. Psychologists state that hatred, resentment, negativity, envy and obsessive thoughts can lead to different somatic disorders and steal femininity. All unexpressed emotions usually cause increased muscle tension, spasms and have a negative effect on women’s emotional state.
As a result, women find it difficult to maintain femininity and correct posture due to muscle stiffness. This stiffness gradually replaces their graceful and beautiful movements by awkward ones. I don’t want to frighten you. I just want you to realize that it’s necessary to solve inner conflicts and achieve a peace of mind, before you make femininity, success and charisma your aims.
4. Communicate with women more often
Today many women, especially tomboys, don’t communicate well, because they wholeheartedly believe that female friendship doesn’t exist. In my opinion, this choice isn’t rational, because it limits their opportunities.
If you have no desire to make friends, you can just keep in touch with other ladies. Take a look around and you’ll see that this world is full of wise, prosperous, truly feminine and kind-hearted women. Active communication with such personalities will increase your feminine energy and help you become more successful in everything you do. Only women can understand all your feelings and emotional experiences without words, because there’s a strong emotional connection between you and them.
I’m also the one who don’t believe in pure and sincere female friendship, but I don’t refuse to communicate with women. To me, my mom and granny have always been my role models. They passed on their experiences to me and taught me to act like a real lady regardless of everything. Even today, I still ask my dear women for a valuable advice and learn new lessons from them.
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5. Don’t take too much on your shoulders
Those women who think that they can do everything themselves are often successful, but unhappy, because they gradually turn into gerbils on a wheel. They don’t realize that their excessive independence and pride steal their spiritual energy.
Sometimes it’s okay to pretend that you’re a cute, womanlike, fragile creature and ask men for help. Gallant and manly men will be even glad to give a helping hand to a beautiful lady. Plus, you’ll be able to dedicate enough time to your appearance, self-development and keep up energetic practices.
Real woman should have a clear idea of her calling and know how to set priorities. Those who can’t imagine their lives without children, shouldn’t combine career and family life. It’s better to choose and prioritize one thing and do it perfectly than make an attempt to kill two birds with one stone and lose everything.
6. Try to be a many-sided personality
Attractive, interesting and womanly ladies are always open to change and believe that their abilities are limitless. Every woman is beautiful, unique and many-sided like a diamond. If you want to attract manly men and become more feminine, you should be ready to act like an actress, mom, wife, daughter or sister in various life situations and develop the skill of redirecting attention from one thing to another.
This skill will give you an opportunity to forget about your problems and make you smile, as if everything is wonderful, even if it’s not. Manly men adore positive ladies who can control their emotions and remain feminine, no matter what happens in their lives. Such women are doomed to happiness, because their femininity boosts the self-esteem of their men.
7. Keep your house and mind clean
Your house isn’t just a building or a place you’re living in, but a strong energy center. There’s a powerful energetic connection between you and your home. You’ll never reach a desirable level of femininity, if your home is messy and uncomfortable, because you’re a woman and guardian of the hearth. It’s not necessary to spend twenty four hours a day cleaning the house, but cleanliness and coziness are women’s moral obligations.
Besides taking care of cleanliness in your home, it’s strongly recommended to purify your body and mind as well. But how can you do it? The easiest way to clear your mind of negative thoughts and refresh your energy is take a contrast shower or a bath with sea salt. Water is a perfect remedy that can quickly wash away negative energy.
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If you’re a tomboy, you shouldn’t give up on yourself. Femininity is a set of behaviors, manners, attitudes and views peculiar to real women. It means that every woman has a chance to activate and boost her feminine energy. Do you agree that femininity can change your life for the better? What way do you increase your femininity? We’d like to know your point of view.