When Cupid’s arrow strikes your heart, you lose all sense of reason and throw caution to the wind just to be with your sweetheart. As time goes by, though, you may wonder if your love is real and ask yourself if this person is the “one” or if it is just a fling? I have eight ways to help you know if you have finally found your soulmate, so read on.
1. You keep them close
When you are with your soulmate, you just want to be next to them as much as possible even if you are not actually doing anything. Simply sitting in the same room with them makes you feel complete somehow.
2. You help each other out
Soulmates like to find little ways to help the other person out. Maybe you make them a drink while you are up, or you throw a load of their laundry in the wash – any little thing that you can do just to show them that they are special and worth it to you.
3. You are happy when you are together
When you are with your soulmate, you find yourself happy for no reason at all. It is that “puppy love” feeling that never really goes away. You may be doing something that is actually boring, but if you are with your man, you are on cloud nine.
4. You admit when you are wrong
Remember when your mom used to have to force you to apologize to your siblings? That is not how it is when you are with your soulmate. Instead, if you know that you have done something wrong or that you have hurt their feelings, you actually want to make it right because you know your relationship is more important than whatever you were fighting about.
5. You actually have conversations
When was the last time you had a real conversation with someone that was deeper than surface level? If you are with your soulmate, chances are they are happening on a regular occasion because you like to talk to them. You will talk about your day, your job, your dreams, your fears – anything and everything because you are genuinely interested in them.
6. “Me” has become “We”
If you are with your soulmate, you no longer think in terms of “me” or “I”. Instead, when you are making plans you automatically think of the two of you as a unit. Future dreams and decisions are now about the two of you and you are comfortable with the change.
7. You brag on them
When you are in a relationship with your soulmate, you can’t help but brag about them to other people. Instead of being that person who complains all the time about their partner, you can’t find enough good things to say about them and you find yourself bringing up their name every other sentence. It may be annoying to your friends, but it is a good sign for your relationship.
8. You are best friends
When you have found your soulmate, they become your best friend. Now when you have a free night you want to spend it together instead of with the girls. He/she is the first person that you think of calling when something happens and he/she is the person that you text all day about anything that comes up. He/she is your “person” in other words.
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So what do you think? Have you finally found your soulmate? If so, hold on to them tight and know that they are worth the effort. True love is a very special thing and it is something to cherish and be thankful for so congratulations. If you do not think he/she is the one, that is ok, too. Not every relationship is meant to be but they can all teach you a lesson and make you a better person.